You’re definitely not alone—most couples feel awkward in front of the camera, even the ones who look effortless in their photos. The good news is this is very fixable, and you don’t need to suddenly become “photogenic” to get great photos.

Here’s what actually helps 👇

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1. Choose the right photographer (this matters more than you think)

Look for photographers who describe their style as:

• Candid

• Documentary

• Guided, not posed

A good photographer won’t just say “pose” and leave you hanging—they’ll give small, natural prompts like:

• “Walk together and talk about your first date”

• “Lean your forehead toward each other”

• “Whisper something funny”

👉 When reviewing portfolios, look for couples who don’t look stiff. That’s a sign the photographer knows how to guide awkward people.

 

 

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2. Do an engagement or pre-wedding shoot

This is the #1 confidence booster.

Why it helps:

• You practice being photographed before the wedding day

• You learn what feels natural to you

• You build trust with your photographer

By the wedding, it won’t feel weird—it’ll feel familiar.

 

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3. Focus on movement, not poses

Still, frozen poses are what make people look awkward.

Instead:

• Walk hand-in-hand

• Sway together

• Sit, lean, or cuddle

• Fix your partner’s outfit, laugh, talk

Movement = natural expressions.

 

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4. Keep your hands busy

Hands are the biggest source of “What do I do??”

Try:

• Holding hands

• Holding your bouquet

• One hand in a pocket

• Touching your partner’s arm, chest, or face

No dangling hands = instant comfort.

 

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5. Wear something you can move and breathe in

If your outfit is too tight, heavy, or uncomfortable, it shows.

Choose:

• Clothes you can walk and sit in

• Shoes you can stand in

• Fabrics that don’t make you feel stiff

Confidence reads better than perfection.

 

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6. Let go of the idea of “posing perfectly”

Your job is not to look like a model.
Your job is to:

• Show up

• Be present

• Focus on your partner, not the camera

The best photos come from real moments—not perfect posture.

 

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7. Tell your photographer you feel awkward (seriously)

This is not embarrassing—it’s helpful.

Say something like:

“We’re a bit awkward in front of the camera and would love lots of guidance.”

A professional photographer will:

• Slow things down

• Give more direction

• Reassure you constantly

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Bottom line 💛

You don’t need to “fix” yourself—you just need:
✔ The right photographer
✔ Gentle guidance
✔ Permission to be real, not perfect

If you want, tell me:

• Are you more comfortable with candid or slightly guided photos?

• Are you considering an engagement shoot?

I can help you choose the best approach (or even what to look for in a photographer’s portfolio).